`Rejection` this word actually has a special meaning in itself. In a deeper realization it is to be considered that this rejection is nothing, but recreating your energy completely in a newer direction. In this materialistic world of continuous progression, where you`re continually struggling a lot to climb up the so called status of success and prosperity, this word `rejection` may bring along a sense of hopelessness, may cause you to stumble a bit and quite obviously may ask you a question in a stern manner; “Why Me?” Yes! It is the question that every time strikes our mind, whenever we get rejected. Most of the time we blame others. Sometimes we blame ourselves also. But unfortunately never channelize our attention to the inner most depth where lies the cause of that rejection.
At this juncture, I would like to remind you that most of the time, only to handle this rejection, our ego comes forward and impels us to believe that we`re nothing but only a looser who cannot be chosen for anything. And quite unknowingly of us, our ego starts to hold us back, tries to imprint that negativity within the core of our personality. And as a consequence, quite gradually our unconscious also starts to believe that we`re nothing, but only some hopeless wanderers, wandering around a labyrinthine maze of nothingness and failures. And trust me, the more you get stuck with that negative imprint of yourself, created by your own ego, the more you may start to face rejections again and again.
Here in this blog, I would like to remind you that this rejection that every time we think as a denial, is nothing like that. Instead, it is to be considered as a whitener of our life to erase all those wrong directions where once upon a time we preferred to mark our footsteps. In a sense, this rejection is nothing but actually a direction, obviously a newer one to follow up. And I feel, the more you follow that newer direction, delving into the depth of your unconscious, the more you can perceive where in exactly lies that divine protection that has been hidden under the hard layer of that rejection. And the more you start to feel the quintessence of that divine blessings that your soul yearns for a long period of time.
Let`s pause for a while and delve more into your psyche:
In a superficial way of understanding this rejection may hold you back, may make you feel as an abandoned soul to wander around some hopeless labyrinthine mazes, but if you ask yourself to comprehend that rejection in a compassionate way, quite automatically you will start to perceive the hidden meaning of protection underlying the hard layer of that rejection.
In a deeper sense this rejection is actually nothing, but a moment sent from the higher source of universal intelligence to pause for a while and to ground yourself with the truth of existence. And that truth is the actual truth of life itself; the truth of your soul, your being as well. In a broader sense to interpret, during the moment of this rejection you may feel a sense of nothingness casting a heavy spell on you, you may feel this is ultimate end from where escape is just an illusion to think about! But trust me, here in lies the magic itself; the miracle of creating something out of nothing!
In a deeper sense to evaluate, it is this rejection that has a capacity to probe deep into your mind, in order to bring out the highest potential, lurking within you. Putting aside your ego if you start to perceive that rejection with the depth of your soul, quite automatically you can expand your communication with yourself and start to know yourself in a proper way beyond the layer of your conscious mind. And the more you start to unravel yourself, more you can unlock those barriers, that are obstructing your path of attaining your ideal purpose.
It`s quite a spontaneous process. What you need to do is just to allow your soul to spread her wings beyond the conscious imagination of barriers and obstructions. And this is possible only when you pause for a while, instead of allowing your ego to blame yourself and others for this mere rejection. As I feel, this period of rejection is the ultimate hour to transcend your consciousness beyond this superficial, conscious realm of discontent and disorder.
It may be a gateway to explore your soul`s magical power:
In a deeper sense to reinterpret this rejection may be considered as a greater way to explore your entity once again; a greater way to help you out from an illusion and to guide you once again towards a newer direction. This rejection is actually nothing, but a moment of revelation I feel; a moment to perceive a higher truth and transform yourself according to that divine guidance.
In a clearer way to explain rejection is an opportunity to contemplate more; it is that golden moment when universe is asking you to peep inside, asking you to talk with your inner self, allowing your heart to see the different horizons of newer possibilities. It is not a moment of a mere rejection only but a moment of reflection, a moment to give your soul that power to create herself with the inherent truth of your existence.
On a very first place this rejection may hold you back, may make you feel that you`re nothing but only a useless creature to mourn over some irreparable loss! But actually it is that ideal time to be grounded with your deeper self; it is the time reconnect to the roots of your existence once again. In that sense, this rejection not only pushes you away from that wrong direction, but also reminds you to perceive the greater truth of your inner experience.
In order to explain it in a clearer way I would like to share with you an experience that I had a couple of years ago with a woman of near about forty-five years old when I was in Shimla. You need to think that the rejection ultimately helped her out to be a multi-millionaire in her society, but it actually helped her to be an authentic self of her own, managed her to settle down with a small roadside pizza hut, instead of strolling down and getting rejected from door to door. She was satisfied and self- content as I felt. There was no regret in her eyes for choosing that path, in spite of having completed b tech in Engineering during her young age. She herself confessed; “That IT field was not my cup of tea! It was not a rejection, as I feel now… instead it was a selection I feel in a deeper sense…the more I got rejected, the more I was getting grounded with my being as I feel now…and that was a true recognition; the recognition of my soul`s choice…recognition of what the divine was asking me to choose not only to lit the candle of my being once again but also to accept the spontaneous flow of nature. And yes! That was truly a moment of transformation…a moment to connect with who I`m in a real sense, keeping aside all forms of illusive aspirations…”
`Rejection`: an opportunity to recreate and empower your being:
Here in lies the miracle; the miracle of recognizing your inner self and your true worth. So in that sense this rejection is nothing, but a reminder to ground yourself with your own being, to ground yourself with the truth of your inner self. Even it is the time to work with your soul, to nurture and feed her according to the grace and spirit of this universal natural flow of truth and resonance. The resonance where your heart can even hear the soft mumbles of your soul and your soul can feel what the divine source of universal intelligence is asking you to recognize as the deeper truth of your being
It`s not all about a story of a caterpillar to flourish in the form of a beautiful butterfly, but an inside story of transforming his/ her self, true to the ideal being. And it happens only when we get rejected again and again and quite automatically get that strength enough to rebuild ourselves in a newer way. And here in lies the miracle of our being! The miracle of the universe of recreating our souls according to the spiritual essence that we all have within, since the primordial time of existence.
